I bought it!

Due to some recommendations from friends and a fellow blogger - I went to heaven (AKA, Barnes & Noble) and bought 'Taking Charge of Your Fertility'.

I honestly did not expect it to be as big of a book as it is. It also came with some software to help charting. I put all my info in, and FINALLY I got some info that matched some other stuff I got, So I am going by this book!

Tomorrow I am 'supposed' to ovulate. I can definitely see feel signs. I never realized that all the changes happening to me were natural and supposed to happen. I thought, maybe it was my diet? I used to make excuses for everything. D'oh.

BDing has not been easy. You see... we have the habit of coming home from work late. I get home around 7 and he is usually in before 7:30. Then we eat, separately from each other. I am picky. We don't cook b/c we are too tired an lazy to. So usually we eat leftovers from dining out, or our lunches, or cereal etc... During our random meal time we chat, sort through mail and talk about our plans for the house, getting pregnant, and the upcoming holidays. About an hour later, we move on to reading books, or browsing the web (and for me -- blogging and stalking other blogs). I am usually attached to my computer on the couch with the TV on in the background until about 11:30pm. At which time I am dead tired.

We talk about how we will BD - it's not a CHORE. We like doing it. It's actually a friggen awesome experience every time (TMI?). But by the time I get to bed he is either asleep or too tired. And the convo goes something like this (beware, maybe a little too much for some)

Me: "Let's have sex"

Him: "Okay."

Me: "Okay, but, I don't feel like moving." (hint hint)

Him: "Neither do I" (hint hint)

Me: "Can't you just JO and then finish inside me?"

Him: "Why don't you do it for me?"

Me: "If I could snap your penis off afterwards I would, because I don't really feel like moving my body."

Him: "heh" *cringe*

Me: "We're lazy."

Him: "Yeah we are."

Me: *snore*

Him: *SNORE*

Last night, since we just fell asleep, we agreed to try and go to bed early tonight so we wouldn't be so tired. It's already a quarter to 10 and he's asleep on the couch. Me, -- well I don't feel like moving once again. But now is my fertile time so I will get to it. He will be happy b/c he likes it when he can just sit back, relax, and enjoy it. Fine, he deserves it. He did all the dishes tonight. (Lucky Me!)

I checked the TCOYF (taking care of your fertility) planner and it says that if we conceive this week, our due date would be around August 19th, 2009. Aye! A summer baby?! I hear that's rough. LOL. Whatev -- I will just be happy to get pregnant at any point.

Wait, I think I just inspired myself to BD tonight by writing this entry -- even if I am the only one getting a workout.

So, off I go. WOO HOO!!!