If...
we could have it our way. Remoo (younger sis) and I would TTC at the same time. Get pregnant at the same time. Give birth at the same time. Live next door to each other and have our kids grow up to be best friends...
We/I always thought that's how it would be... obviously, due to the fact that she isn't even married yet, I'm not so sure we could get on the same schedule.
However, that's not the only reason. I didn't even think about the what-ifs.
What if one of us got pregnant and the other couldn't. Or what if one of us got pregnant and so did the other but one of us miscarried. I think it would be so hard for both of us to be happy for each other when one experiences a failed pregnancy or attempt. :-(
I need to stop reading the 'TTC after a loss' boards on thebump.com
Posted by Mrs. MooMoo @ 10:57 PM
2 Comments:
wow, that is really good of you to be thinking about that stuff. i think a lot of people rush into that stuff to do it at the same time, but don't think about the harder things that could happen.
This is one of those issues where you kinda have to let fate do its thing. If it's meant to happen, then it will happen.
Planning is good, but if you expect too much, then it usually leads to disappointment.
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