where we're at...

I should know by now, that life never goes according to plan...

I've lightened up in the way that I do not get as hysterical or frustrated when my plan doesn't seem to be panning out. I think it only ages me more. LOL

Mike and I had 'planned' on getting pregnant last November, and had succeeded. Unfortunately, the pregnancy didn't stick and we had a D&C in January.

We then 'planned' on trying again in June/July, but we were so sick, we only managed to BD a handful of times and not on the good-temp days.

Went to a family reunion and came back and my period had never arrived. It was a 50d cycle. My longest ever. Saw a doc who said I have PCOS.

Got bloodwork done and it was all out of whack, but the PCOS results came back negative.

Got bloodwork done again b/c my general practicioner had a feeling the results weren't mine.

The 2nd set came back and it was confirmed, the results were not mine, except for some vitamin D deficiency I apparently have.

The Vitamin D Deficiency turns out to be more serious than I had figured. With the numbers I have, it was recommended that we not try again until we got my numbers up. (b/c we'd be at high-risk for another miscarriage)

So, right now - I am on Vitamin D3 supplements and some prescription Fish Oils (b/c the non-prescription brand 'sometimes' can have a side effect of fish-burps. EWWWWW) Seafood makes me gag.

I've been keeping busy trying to get the house in order to sell. It's a lot bigger of a task than we had anticipated, but it's underway.

Mike's grandmother is not doing so well and was told that she was going to die. She's not handling it well, neither would I. Mike is not taking it so well either, which is to be expected.

Everything just seems to be happening so fast.